April 21, 2015   2 Iyyar 5775
Search our site:


TBT is a welcoming, inclusive Reform Jewish Congregation
in Upper Nyack, NY which offers dynamic, educational, spiritual and social programs for all ages.

Welcome Rabbi Douglas Kohn  
Click here to read this week's D'var Torah.


In the Mishnah, our third century code of Jewish law, Rabbi Shammai asserts, “Greet every person with a cheerful countenance.” [Avot 1:15] 

It is great advice, not really novel (my late mother gave the same advice, and it is unlikely she had read the Mishnah!), and it is the task before us at Temple Beth Torah. 

As I come to TBT as your Interim Rabbi, and as we continue a series of congregational transitions and change over the next year, Shammai’s admonition should prove to be a vital and worthy teaching. There will be new faces in our beautiful synagogue – including mine, and as I get to know each of you, we will transform new faces into new friends – and our ancient sage has offered this single and simple, yet profound directive with which to engage each other and our congregational changes. 

In the spirit of Shammai’s message, I appreciate that our Transition Committee, so ably chaired by Ellen Holtzman, is preparing a number of get-together events for us to meet, to get to know one another, and to talk about our Temple. I am very eager to meet each of you, as I trust you are equally eager to introduce yourselves to me. Please watch for invitations or for notices of events, and I hope that you will come to many get-togethers – not just one. Getting to know one another takes a little time, and there is much cheerful countenance to spread forth! 

Yet, if we look a little deeper, we see that Shammai is teaching us a far more profound lesson than merely to greet one another warmly. That is good, but there is more. Shammai teaches that the essence of community is found in how we treat one another. It doesn’t really matter much how many classes are offered, how spiritual the worship may be, or the schedule when a program begins or ends, if we haven’t genuinely made caring for each other our chief obligation, and our most genuine devotion. Ultimately, Temple is about Greeting every person with a cheerful countenance.

Moreover, Shammai taught that we should greet every person – not just those with whom we are familiar or intimate, which means taking a little risk to extend ourselves. Thus, our Transition Committee is looking to cast a very wide net, with multiple meeting opportunities, so that we do our very best to include as much if not all of the TBT community in meeting not only me, but more importantly, in meeting one another. There is no face nor any voice which is unimportant – to me – or to the future of our Temple. “Greet every person,” taught our Mishnaic teacher. 

So, I’ll start… 

Thus, in conclusion, “I’m Rabbi Doug Kohn, I’m your new Interim Rabbi at TBT, and I am very eager to know you!” With Shalom, 

Rabbi Doug Kohn

Shaareinu: Our Gateways  

TBT’s new and inspiring initiative, “Shaareinu: Our Gateways”:

We must learn to see past one’s disabilities and to see the Jewish soul within. This is a process of breaking down physical as well as attitudinal barriers, and we at TBT are poised to begin this important work. Enabling all to access our community is not an act of charity, it is an obligation that benefits our entire community. All four of our task forces are comprised of volunteers with a wide range of expertise and experience in relevant fields, both professional and personal. They have been meeting and setting achievable, concrete goals, lead by chairpeople who are taking their place as significant lay leaders of our congregation.  

Click here for details about all of the progress we’ve made to date...

NEW! Nefesh Task Force Referral Manual  

In the spirit of opening our gateways to Temple Beth Torah members and the greater Rockland County community, the Nefesh Task Force has created a Referral Manual. Compiled in the fall of 2013 the manual lists a variety of services in Rockland and surrounding communities (Bergen and Westchester counties). Here you will find listed the following types of services: MENTAL HEALTH, ADDICTION TREATMENT, DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITIES, AGING, BEREAVEMENT, SELF HELP GROUPS, PEER AND FAMILY SUPPORTS, EDUCATION AND INFORMATION SERVICES.

A number of people contributed to the creation of this informative document. Dr. Steve Levy, chair of Nefesh Task Force, acted as executive editor. Task force members, Rena Finkelstein, President of Rockland NAMI-FAMILYA (National Alliance on Mental Illness) and Julie Buffington Rizner culled the listings from many sources. Alona Marnet-Franchino and other Temple office staff edited and formatted the text.  As with all our endeavors we are grateful for the strong support of Rabbi Brian Beal, Cantor Sally Neff and President Barry Schoenberg. And a special vote of thanks to Eva Steen, Chair of TBT’s Shaareinu initiative, for all her encouragement and support.

It is 79 pages long. We strongly encourage you to read the introduction and disclaimers as well as the Mi Sheberach Prayer of Healing on pages 3 and 4. The Table of contents can be found on page 5. The remainder of the manual is the list of agencies and programs provided in our service area. Please check with them directly as some information will change over the course of time. In addition to calling the agencies themselves, you can access members of the Nefesh Task Force by calling the temple office and indicating what information you are seeking. We will return all calls.


We're trying to get some additional responses to begin planning for the complaining seminar session.

Please click here to answer a brief questionnaire.  Thank you!
Have Your Event at TBT!!!  

Temple Beth Torah rents out its Social Hall for a variety of events.  Here's more information:

Member Rental Fees & Agreement
Non-Member Rental Fees and Agreement

TBT Facility Usage Agreement
TBT Dietary/Kashrut Policy
Event Set-up Form

Find Us On Facebook  
Upcoming Services  
World Zionist Organization Election  
Vote today at Reform Jews 4 Israel
TBT's Next Featured Event  
Upcoming Events  
Help TBT raise money - use this to shop at Amazon.com  
When you use this box to purchase from Amazon, a percentage of your purchase goes back to Temple Beth Torah:

TBT Professional Services Directory  

If you are a TBT Congregant who is interested in posting an ad in the TBT Professional Services Directory for FREE, send it to Julie Weinstein at julie.weinstein@gmail.com .

Note that the ad size is limited to 380 pixels wide by 190 pixels high. You may also submit a link where you would like the web site to go if your ad is clicked on.

TBT reserves the right to deny certain content from being posted on its site.


Rockland County Resources  

    United Way of Rockland County logo          

330 North Highland Ave, Upper Nyack, NY 10960
Phone: (845) 358-2248 / Fax: (845) 358-3450 
Website questions or comments: webmaster@templebethtorah.org.
Union for Reform Judaism  

Member of the
Union for
Reform Judaism